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Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Swapping


I am curious about being with a woman. I have kissed, fondled, etc. but I have never gone down. I would like to give it a try but frankly, I just have not had the nerve. I would like to do this with my partner. I know it would be hot for us to go down together. I also really like the idea of backup. If I loose my nerve, then I know he will deliver. I would also really like to try a strap on with a woman. I am very traditional in that I feel that the man usually has the dominant role. The idea of me being in that dominant position is a big turn on.

I am new to the swinging scene as my partner has more experience then I. I am looking into easing into things with same room or soft swap but if the comfort level is right, who knows.......

I think some people put on their profile that they never play on the first meeting as a way out. If they are not into the people they meet, then they can retreat without offending anyone.

We both have a go with the flow kind of outlook. If we meet a couple, conversation is flowing, and everyone is comfortable, then I don't see why not.

Of course we are have not yet been in this situation yet but are eager for the experience!

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

How to be a Swinger


I have to say if it wasn't for my true friends I don't think I could of gotten Thur the last year of my life and I Thank you all for being so wonderful to me and listening to me cry and losing my mind I attend ALOT of party's and felt so guilty for going to them even thou i did nothing wrong but always felt as if i was being judged for going to them because you know this is the largest sex and swingers site but the bottom line is It doesn't matter what others think of you its about how you feel about your self I enjoy the party's and meeting new people just because I go to them doesn't mean I am a swinger or in that life style it just means I have a life and enjoying it. I Enjoy meeting new people and just having fun .. I can be the life of the party or I can sit in the corner and look bummed and unhappy. well that time has come I am out of that corner forever because I am me and if you don't like or love me then your not worth my time.

Friday, January 09, 2009

Swingers sites



We receive the letter:
"We are all on a swingers site, right? If that is true we must all want to have sex with other people. So, why is it so tough to find people to actually meet here? Our actual face to face contacts from this site is very limited. Probably a minute percentage of the people who contact us, are on our network or, actually write.
We would like to hear from other couple...yeah, guys couples, who actually met people from this site and eventually had sex with those people. Prove us wrong, because we are thinking there is nothing but photo collectors here."

And what I think about that:
"People are on this site for many different reasons. Although, some started off with the want/need/desire to be with multitudes of different people but just because its a sex and swingers site does not necessarily mean that everyone stays on this site just for that. I started off with that intention but as I started actually talking and meeting with people outside the site (face to face) its not exactly what EVERONE here is searching for. Of course, everyone loves sex but in order to have that sex, theres gotta be attraction there to begin with.If I cannot 'gel' with a person and/or a couple, I see no sense in taking it further.
Then again, some may start off with the full intention that swinging is what they wanted but after a while, they do have the right to change their mind on what theyre looking for. Myself, as a single female, for example..... dont get me wrong, I love the lifestyle but it gets lonely and boring doing it solo (without a partner) for so long. You gotta look at it from ALL partied here. Not just one sided.
All in all, dont get frustrated even though, its easier said than done. Different strokes for different folks. Thats just how it is."

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Adventures / threesomes / partners swapping


Adventures seem to be coming to a head soon as the woman from seattle i mentioned in one post will soon be in town this weekend -- and a bi fellow from seattle just contacted me throughHotMatch-- and the woman from seattle mentioned being interested in a 3-some or watching 2 fellows -- she also mentioned having a strap on.

it would be a first for me on all three counts -- but the thought of them sends me reeling -- both from anticipation and from trepidation... it is a strange world, this bringing sexual fantasies to life.

i also have a local vancouver friend who i met through another website. she is having adventures pursuing ladies and men... and cheering me on with my stories of new people, possibilites, and occasional action...

she is thrilled by the idea of watching 2 men as well... and is hinting at 3-somes and orgies too. so she is excited by the idea of the seattle folks possibly visiting.

who know what will happen? i will keep you posted.

Thanks to everyone for all your interest and compliments on my blog.

I hope you are having a good time out there with your own adventures and stories.

Play safe.

oh. and a question for the women: how many of you are turned on by men touching, or kissing, or giving oral sex, or fucking each other? none, a little, a lot? different for different sexual acts?

Let me know.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Is internet Swinging harder then Meeting In person?


We pose this question based on our experiences in both the digital world as well as the analog world, if you will, of being an active swinging couple within the state of Wisconsin who is interested in meeting single women and couples. We have hosted several parties consisting of hundreds of people, attended many swinger events, and have met and played with many wonderful people at both on site and off sight swinger clubs. We are by no means shy and continue fun lasting relationships will most of the people we’ve met.

However, we have attempted to make the cross over from analog swinging, i.e. meeting people in person, to a more digital environment, i.e. swinging sites, and have been very unsuccessful. We have chatted, added people to networks, given phone numbers, emails addresses, and what not and still have not found successful matchs both sexually or mentally. We have found a host of people wanting pictures, wanting to be added to our network, or people wanting to be added to our messenger list. For what reason, we have still yet to discover, but we still press on to find that small niche of active swinging couples and women looking to actually meet and have fun.

So we pose the question…how many of you couples and/or single women out there find belonging to pay sites and internet swinger’s groups rewarding? Have many of you found the sexual and mental matches you have sought and have enjoyed days and or nights of pleasure and bliss or do many of you believe that the only thing to be found on pay sites and internet groups is a host of unfulfilled fantasies and many debits from your bank account?

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Swingers cruise

Swingers cruise
For quite some time, dh (dear hubby) & I have talked about going on a swingers cruise. Lately I have been having some very hot detailed dreams about it. I thought I would share and see if others have gone and would like to share.

My dream:
We fly to Denver and meet there with 3 other couples we have known and planned this with. We all fly to Florida and have 2 nights in Florida before boarding the ship. The first night we all go out and have great fun. DH gets involved with a gal from the group, and I get involved with a guy. I go with the guy to his hotel room and DH goes with the gal to ours. Hours later, the guy and I walk to my room, and join DH and his GF. The next day, we all meet for breakfast and talk of our wild and fun night. One gal and I hit it off great, and we go shopping. We go into a large store and decide to try on swimsuits. So off to the dressing-room we go, yes together of course. Once in the room, as we're undressing each other, we get carried away. We're on the floor and get distracted by the pounding on the door. Giggling we change and walk out, anxious to return to our hotel room and have more fun. As we walk into my room, DH is there with a gal, so we join them. Dh is delighted at all the female attention. We all take care of each other, and after several hours of very wet fun, we all snuggly in a heap on the bed. Later a hubby knocks at the door, delighted to find his DW and she undresses him, well us 3 gals just can't ignore this, so we help. DH was enjoying the view from the bed, until a gal goes to him for mutual pleasure. After more hours of fun, we decided we should show up for dinner with the other 3. We arrive at the restaurant and wait, finally we order and while enjoying the meal, and each others company, the other 3 arrive, visibly exhausted!! We have a wonderful meal and each couple returns to their hotel room, getting rest for the Cruise.
In the morning, we arrive at the Cruise and all check into our cabins. I am so excited that I can't wait any longer to have DH, so I take him. We finally leave our cabin and find the others for dinner. Chatting with the gals, I find out they also couldn't wait and did the same. My gf from the dressing room, asks me to join her outside. While by the pool, a nice younger man walks up to us and tells us how hot we look, telling us how he and his wife have done this for years and have great fun. As we sit and talk, his hand is slowly walking up my leg. My gf is also getting excited and we decide to take this further. We all start to kiss and slowly he undresses her, while I slip his pants off. Never knowing a lounge chair could be a spot for such desire. GF's DH shows up and helps the younger man, as the couple find extreme heat, the younger man suddenly has me on my back, lowering my dress, the straps fall off my shoulders. As we slowly enjoy each others bodies, he fills me with his juice.As I cum multiple times, squirting more and more, soaking his cock and balls and thighs. He asks me to his room, as we walk towards it, I notice DH is busy with 2 gals. Knowing how satisfied they will be, I smile and continue walking with my new friend. After several hours, his DW shows up in the morning and joins us. 3 days into the cruise and I find my way back to my cabin. No DH, so I shower and organize my clothes. I decide to walk down for lunch and see if I can find DH. He sits in a hot tub with 3 gals around him, and one behind him. I say Hello and blow him a kiss. My dressing room friend finds me and we talk of our fun thus far. She tells me that her DH is anxious to have me with her, and not wanting to keep him waiting, we all go. early the next morning I again make my way back to my cabin. DH is there with 2 gals. I kiss him and help one gf cum, then I slip into the shower. Our last day of the cruise and DH tells me we have reservations for the next one. He says the next one is longer and has 2 days at a private beach!

I luv this dream, and always wake up nice and wet!!!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Dick Discreet Meeting


Come on my dear, we are very horny we need to fuck you good, our big dicks need to enter your shaved tight pussy and your tight asshole. Come to our meeting in the motel room, once the door is closed it will be time for you to take your dick. Do you see my dear our hard big dicks need to fuck your tight holes, we need you very horny to be fucked good. You will be blindfolded and tied up, than we will need to finger you under the skirt and see your beautiful sexy panties so you will be very horny and ready to take our dicks that will be very hard for you. Let yourself be entered very deeply,it is a must to calm down your sexual needs. You will be held spread wide so the big hard dicks could enter you better. Promise to be a good girl and bend over spread and take deep with no complains..

Friday, November 07, 2008

Jealousy on swingers party?

So, you finally talked her in to go to the swingers club. She is fine-looking and with her sexy dress, she is definitely a catch! You realized that immediately, the other guys are checking her out. Looks like she going to have a lot of fun and you do not. So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm around her, and cast steely: Don not you mess with my wife!
You closely watch her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even when she just talks with a guy.
And at the end of the night it happened. Because of her you got together with a couple and ended up in a hotel room. Because of your wife, you finally got screw a good looking woman and her husband screwed your wife. After that both of you banged together both ladies. At this point you realized that, he is not only just younger and better looking than you are but easily outperformed you in sex, plus he is really big down there. He was able to screw both women with his big cock all night long. He gave them multiply orgasms several times.
You did not think about this one. You did not think that a guy will be able to screw both ladies all night long. He was able to does this. Was not he? What was it? Viagra? I do not think so... It is fact, Viagra can make you bang all night long, but Viagra can not give you multiply orgasm and alot of cum and he had both. He filed up more then few condom with sperm. What ever it was, it worked well. He gave both women screaming orgasm several times. She not supposed to have more fun than you have. Do you think is right?

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Soft swinging

Couples get together and engage in sexual activity together, but they only have sex with their own partners -- no partner swapping. But a lot of watching does go on -- and possibly some touching -- a touchy matter best negotiated in advance. The hard line for soft swinging is no intercourse between non-mates. A wider definition says that any time a couple brings in a third party, they are swinging (threesomes). But in this case the third party would only watch or be watched.

Last night we had some fun with some friends of ours that we met here (who shall remain unmentioned unless they choose to share ). WOOO HOOOO was it ever a lot of fun. Both females were unfortunately limited by a monthly condition...so everything steered clear of that..Still...there is a lot that can be done Anyway, I was curious about what "Soft Swap" is. If someone gets a bj, is the line crossed? Is it soft swap if all the attention is on the swapped partner, and almost zip on your own until afterwards? Anyway, we had a lot of fun. As always it is fun to get out, but to get out with another great couple you can enjoy...beyond many of the normal social boundaries, what a fantastic time!

Monday, November 03, 2008

Swingers Parties

As we mentioned the other day, our societal calendar is pretty full for the next few weeks. So full, that we had to turn down a couple of invitations to restricted house parties. A black couple from Denver invited us to their party on November 1, but that night-time we are having a birthday celebration for Greg at the Proof Niteclub. A black couple from Longmont sought after to know if we would attend their party on November 8, but we are attending a friend's birthday celebration at the Sugar House that night-time.

The restricted house party is our favorite way to play, so we felt bad having to turn these invitations down, but we feel it's added honorable to make early commitments to others and stick with them. According to many of our colleagues in the swing lifestyle, others like to hold out for i'm sorry?'s called the "bigger, well again deal." Some swingers never fully commit to anything because they think that a added pleasing offer might "cum" along. We don't understand this category of assessment because if you happen to miss one party, there's always a different one to go to later on.

For some indefinite reason, we have recently been getting a lot of attention on Adult FriendFinder. Our profile has received added than 1100 views in the past 30 days, and we have also external 40 flirts and landed on 14 hotlists in that same interval. Those numbers are much superior than regular for us, and we think it might be because we recently updated our profile photos. Unfortunately, much of this attention is imminent from people that we will never meet, either because they settle too far away away or they don't meet our criteria.

One couple from Salt Lake City sent us a rather obscure letter earlier this week. Their message read, "We saw your profile," and nothing else. They gave us no indication if they sought after to meet us, or if they just sought after to compliment us on our profile. We didn't have the patience to dig that information out of them, so we sent them a response that simply read, "Thanks for letting us know our profile is evident." They have not on paper back.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Real Swingers and the problems with hooking up

Hello again friends, neighbors, and future lovers. It is time for our monthly Blog...the topic "Real Swingers and the problems with hooking up."

We have noticed since entering the wonderful world of electronic swinger dating a growing problem, the fact that no one seems interested in ever meeting. People post, send winks, emails, and post blogs letting strangers know their interest and seeing the most private parts of their bodies and yet responses in actual meetings do not seem to equal the amount of time and money spent on acuring the potiental new mate.

Why is this? We have ran into many swing friends using the electronic media to sublament their onsite time at clubs to meet new people, and they all say the same things: “we talked to this couple for a while and nothing” or “they always seem to start out communicating alot...then as soon as you add them to your network they disappear” (nothing happening meaning no meeting...not just sex).

Strange isn’t it? Why would people spend hours on the interent chatting, exchanging pictures, and what not only to never meet. We understand the possiblity of fakers out there, however to assume that a majority of people using the electronic media are fakers?

We have entertained the idea that physical attractiveness could play a role in it, however how does this explain those situations in which pictures are available, people still chat, only to have the end result be no meeting?

(when thinking of an answer to this.. one thing to note is that at no time does anyone say “we AREN’T interested or we don’t really want to meet in person.)

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

The first sex experience. Local swingers

O yes, another, even deeper! -- Violetta stonala and serpentine under Stasom as much on the pan. This brought local swingers, its member, already tense, even stronger nalyvajte blood, and Stas continued buravit them the girl with renewed vigour. It seemed he was on the verge of protknet it thoroughly, especially as Violetta itself does move the thigh, trying to became a member of it as can be deeper.

-- Yes, dear, like this, dear! -- Violetta has been shouting loudly. -- I want to give birth to a child from you! Well, make me a child!

And at this very moment a member local swingers suddenly skukozhilsya and, in split second turned into a useless piece of soft flesh, slips out of the vagina. But Stas already was on the verge of ending was ready! Dura! Dura, her mother! It must be f lyapnut is not at the most opportune moment! With anger Stas nearly punched come to Violeta beautiful person. This bitch is not managed to reach peak enjoyment, and to share.

Violetta looked on in surprise grossly ottolknuvshego her man. It was still too initiated to understand what is happening. Instinctively he had taken two fingers terebit clitoris, but bring themselves to orgasm she never succeeded.

-- Well… - Violetta offended local swingers and sponges, to find a member Stasa, began his poglazhivat, slightly ottyagivaya extreme flesh and holding a finger tip to bridle. She knew that no man is unable to resist against it. But all her efforts were in vain - Member Stas does not wish to return to combat status.

-- You do not want to bore you, I bebika small?

These words finally removed himself from Stas.

-- Ty which, quite ohrenela? -- The person Stas filled with blood and eyes nearly local swingers. Maybe you still married to me and met? So horseradish thee! -- With these words Stas resigned fingers of his right hand in kukish podnes and his nose to the Violeta. -- This is to meet you? Rather, you will be able to bang my asses than the smallest incorporated bebika!

Stas to shoot all this in one breath, but his anger is not unimalsya. Instead, the man raspalyalsya more and more. One leap to jump off to bed, he turned to the girl and backwards, slightly curved, razdvinul hands buttocks.

-- This is to meet you? Here's where you go with its smallest bebikom!

But failing Stas treaty, as all his body pierced sudden sharp pain. In the first moment he even did not have consistent, which has become a source of pain and where it originated. It seemed that the pain overnight arisen in every cell of his body, she zhgla Stas from the inside, as if someone pierce his thoroughly hot steel bar. Only a few seconds later, Stas realized that the pain concentrated around the anal openings. Do not even around and inside. Stas ass if divided into pieces. The pain was so unbearable that Stas, rather than to provide at least some resistance, just for cleft-head.

What, actually, it was howling? Nothing much has not happened with him - just Violetta vonzila passage in the rear of his lover falloimitator, which is always lying under her pillow. And yet, say, may lie under the pillow dvadtsatitrehletney lonely girl? The most ordinary dildo. Maybe that's true, too large and would likely too sharply girl stuck in his anal opening his lover, as well as himself to blame: where he told her to go, and there it went.

Artificial member entered the arse Stas on the depth. The guy from the pain of tensions that it forces so that derive falloimitator as quickly as vonzit not been possible. Violetta slightly potyanula it on themselves, and in response zastonal Stas. However, by the pain became primeshivatsya and some new sensation for Stas. Sensations were pleasant, but Stas afraid to admit it even to himself. But a member of guy gradually began to come in excited state, and it does not hide from sight girls. She around his palm and gently began his poglazhivat, while continuing orudovat falloimitatorom anal hole in his lover.

Stas continued stonat, but now he stonal no longer in pain, but from delight. Less than a minute, as Violetta felt as the testes and member napryaglis guy. Stas vydohnul noise, and palm girls instantly filled with thick hot sperm. Concha, Stas relax, and Violette managed to pull a member of his artificial anal openings.

-- What was that? -- Otdyshavshis after the unprecedented strength of orgasm, said Stas. The question was rhetorical, because the guy himself perfectly understood what the subject visited his arse. Arse same bolela unbearable, but the pleasure, which suffered during Stas so unusual sex, swim more than the pain.

Interestingly, as if it was not a piece of plastic, but currently, lively and warm member? -- Thought Stas. Fortunately, he had the prudence not pronounce this thought aloud, and then Violetta could not understand that thinking about him. Yes Stas already and did not know what to think about themselves. The idea perespat with a man in a second fully seized his consciousness.

Stas shoulder looked at the girl next to him. Violetta was charming: a figure - well, just perfect, a person - as if descended from glossy magazine covers. Violetta caught a glance at the guy and flirtatious held on the upper tip of language Bay. Strangely, but it did not have any validity at Stasa - view guy was cold. How could Violetta know what is now thought to head a cluster of her lover?

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Discreet relationships


What do you think about casual sex with your colleques. Is it a good idea? I don’t think so.

Looking for no commitment sex partner at work is a recipe for disaster. You would have much more success and fewer headaches by using websites to find sexual partners for adult relationships. However it is still legal to go out with a co-worker and is still legal to have some real fun with a co-worker, but it is a dangerous game. Many employees and employers appear to become very uncomfortable with co-workers sex relationships especially swingers relationships.

If you are a male and something goes wrong, it is almost sure you will be charged with sexual harassment. If you are a woman and something goes wrong everyone going to call you a whore. I don’t think any lady want to get there.

But even if everything works out fine, workplace and casual sex is still very risky venture for your personal life and for your career too.

When the subject is sex you should be much more careful. What if the other co-workers find it out? Just think about it. If you are a female it definitely will not make any good for your career and your reputation. Sex related news spread very fast. In a few weeks all men in you office building, (if you are working in a office) want you to give them a blow job, under their desk… If you are addictive to performing blow jobs, than go for it, otherwise forget it.

However if all above do not bother you and you think you can find another job very easily, then keep your resume updated and just do it. Remember, sex with co-workers might cost you your job.

Good luck in finding good sex partner!

Friday, March 21, 2008

Adult swingers

We are not very experienced swingers. This true story is about our second trip to a swing club. Friends had taken us for our first visit to a swing club. That couple we knew initially as friends, then as nudists, and finally as swingers. Since we did not like the first club, a rather seedy place, my wife and I decided to try another one where we live, South Florida. It was hard deciding between two area clubs. They both had good Web sites and good reviews from the people we chatted with online. We finally decided on one because it is only a 20-minute drive compared to an estimated 45-minute drive to the other.

When we arrived at the club, the building looked like it had originally been a small factory or warehouse. Walking in, Katy said she might not be ready to have sex while people she does not know watch. Upon entering, we noticed most of the tables around the dance floor were occupied. At that point we did not know if there were any couples upstairs playing. Since we had not had dinner, and they had a buffet, we ate there. There was almost no dancing until nearly 11:00, just couples sitting around listening to the music (which was a good mix and not too loud) and having drinks. There was almost no intermingling between couples, giving us the impression many were like us, first timers to the recently opened club.

It was a very well behaved crowd with most being very attractive. I don't remember seeing anybody smoke, and there were no loud and obnoxious people there at all. That includes no Guido's, though I expected at least a few. Everybody was well dressed in nice casual wear, except one muscle couple that came wearing matching white tiger-stripe muscle tops. It was fun to watch them. The crowd was much younger than we expected, with many very early 30's couples. Since I tend to view the women more than the men, I was impressed with the large number of very attractive women. With the exception of the muscle couple, if you saw any of the others out-and-about, you would never guess they go to a swingers club. Katy commented that the two tall, young, slim women (one white, the other darker) that walked past us might have been models.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Are swingers wrong for sharing their mate?

In your opinion, are swingers wrong for sharing their mate?
No. Swining couples are mature adults who are completely ready for it. I don't condone one partner "forcing" another partner into it. It should be 100% consensual all around.
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Friday, September 09, 2005

What are swingers?

What are swingers?
Swingers are consenting adults who enjoy seeing each other for erotic or intimate encounters or dating.

What about wife swapping?
Some swingers may enjoy wife swapping while others may not. Some may prefer just to be intimate with their partner while others watch.

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