I am curious about being with a woman. I have kissed, fondled, etc. but I have never gone down. I would like to give it a try but frankly, I just have not had the nerve. I would like to do this with my partner. I know it would be hot for us to go down together. I also really like the idea of backup. If I loose my nerve, then I know he will deliver. I would also really like to try a strap on with a woman. I am very traditional in that I feel that the man usually has the dominant role. The idea of me being in that dominant position is a big turn on.
I am new to the swinging scene as my partner has more experience then I. I am looking into easing into things with same room or soft swap but if the comfort level is right, who knows.......
I think some people put on their profile that they never play on the first meeting as a way out. If they are not into the people they meet, then they can retreat without offending anyone.
We both have a go with the flow kind of outlook. If we meet a couple, conversation is flowing, and everyone is comfortable, then I don't see why not.
Of course we are have not yet been in this situation yet but are eager for the experience!
