Real Swingers and the problems with hooking up

Hello again friends, neighbors, and future lovers. It is time for our monthly Blog...the topic "Real Swingers and the problems with hooking up."

We have noticed since entering the wonderful world of electronic swinger dating a growing problem, the fact that no one seems interested in ever meeting. People post, send winks, emails, and post blogs letting strangers know their interest and seeing the most private parts of their bodies and yet responses in actual meetings do not seem to equal the amount of time and money spent on acuring the potiental new mate.

Why is this? We have ran into many swing friends using the electronic media to sublament their onsite time at clubs to meet new people, and they all say the same things: “we talked to this couple for a while and nothing” or “they always seem to start out communicating alot...then as soon as you add them to your network they disappear” (nothing happening meaning no meeting...not just sex).

Strange isn’t it? Why would people spend hours on the interent chatting, exchanging pictures, and what not only to never meet. We understand the possiblity of fakers out there, however to assume that a majority of people using the electronic media are fakers?

We have entertained the idea that physical attractiveness could play a role in it, however how does this explain those situations in which pictures are available, people still chat, only to have the end result be no meeting?

(when thinking of an answer to this.. one thing to note is that at no time does anyone say “we AREN’T interested or we don’t really want to meet in person.)