Soft swinging

Couples get together and engage in sexual activity together, but they only have sex with their own partners -- no partner swapping. But a lot of watching does go on -- and possibly some touching -- a touchy matter best negotiated in advance. The hard line for soft swinging is no intercourse between non-mates. A wider definition says that any time a couple brings in a third party, they are swinging (threesomes). But in this case the third party would only watch or be watched.

Last night we had some fun with some friends of ours that we met here (who shall remain unmentioned unless they choose to share ). WOOO HOOOO was it ever a lot of fun. Both females were unfortunately limited by a monthly condition...so everything steered clear of that..Still...there is a lot that can be done Anyway, I was curious about what "Soft Swap" is. If someone gets a bj, is the line crossed? Is it soft swap if all the attention is on the swapped partner, and almost zip on your own until afterwards? Anyway, we had a lot of fun. As always it is fun to get out, but to get out with another great couple you can enjoy...beyond many of the normal social boundaries, what a fantastic time!