Swingers sites

We receive the letter:
"We are all on a swingers site, right? If that is true we must all want to have sex with other people. So, why is it so tough to find people to actually meet here? Our actual face to face contacts from this site is very limited. Probably a minute percentage of the people who contact us, are on our network or, actually write.
We would like to hear from other couple...yeah, guys couples, who actually met people from this site and eventually had sex with those people. Prove us wrong, because we are thinking there is nothing but photo collectors here."

And what I think about that:
"People are on this site for many different reasons. Although, some started off with the want/need/desire to be with multitudes of different people but just because its a sex and swingers site does not necessarily mean that everyone stays on this site just for that. I started off with that intention but as I started actually talking and meeting with people outside the site (face to face) its not exactly what EVERONE here is searching for. Of course, everyone loves sex but in order to have that sex, theres gotta be attraction there to begin with.If I cannot 'gel' with a person and/or a couple, I see no sense in taking it further.
Then again, some may start off with the full intention that swinging is what they wanted but after a while, they do have the right to change their mind on what theyre looking for. Myself, as a single female, for example..... dont get me wrong, I love the lifestyle but it gets lonely and boring doing it solo (without a partner) for so long. You gotta look at it from ALL partied here. Not just one sided.
All in all, dont get frustrated even though, its easier said than done. Different strokes for different folks. Thats just how it is."