I have been chatting with a young couple that are interested in starting to swap and have been asking lots of questions of Eva and I. As a result I have checked out some articles on the subject.
There are so many pros and cons in participating in wife swapping activities. Here are some of the pros:
* Allowing you and your partner to explore your sexuality and sensuality in a new ways that it is not easily accepted in traditional communities.
* It is a good way for bi-curious women and men to discover their potential bisexuality without becoming drawn in the lesbian or gay community where many felt uncomfortable or unwelcome.
Many times the female will discover that she can be receptive to receiving oral sex, but does not enjoy giving oral sex to females.
* It allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy
* It allows individual to explore and learn lots more about your sexual interests
* It can enhance a couple's relationship and their commitments to each other
* It helps to build up a strong level of trust and security
* You can make many new friends. LOL
* For many people watching, their partner being sexual with another is very arousing and hot
Here are some cons on wife swapping:
* It is not suitable for couples who are in a current relationship which is unstable and unhealthy.
* Wife swapping can tear apart couples through insecurity, jealousy, or lack of honest communication. (We have seen this happen more than once.)
* It is inappropriate for couples involved in wife swapping to cheat on their partner just like it is inappropriate for an individual in a monogamous relationship to cheat.
After discussion of some of the pros and cons of wife swapping, you and your partner should be able to determine and discuss are you both ready for such relationships. Whether or not you and your mate are compatible with wife swapping or even interested in it, remember being involved in wife swapping all parties must agree that the relationship is completely open and honest.
Husbands who enter the swapping scene usually have been married for sometime. This means that he and his wife have experience life together, know of each others wants and needs, and etc. They usually have a very close bond where they love, trust, and understand each other very much.
By swapping, the husband is not considered cheating on their partner because both of them have agreed upon swapping. Many would think that it is the husband choice to swap, but in fact it is usually the wife who wishes to engage in such a way of life. (There is a wide spread feeling that it is normally the male that wishes to start this act.)
Swapping is never viewed as unfaithful to your partner. Instead it is viewed as a way to further enhance the existing relationship in understanding each others' needs and wants, as well as enhancement sexually.
By swapping, the wife knows that her husband is not cheating behind her back. Instead they both get to chose together who they swap with. (You should always agree that both of you should feel something for the other couple, not agree only because your partner would like to have sex with the opposite partner.)It is usually, a couple who they are friends with. But at times they will experience with other couples just to add more spice to their sexual encounters.
Swapping with friends can be a way to lose that friend and should be gone into very carefully. (We seldom attempt to invite friends into our group for that reason. You should be sure that they are interested.)
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