Is internet Swinging harder then Meeting In person?

We pose this question based on our experiences in both the digital world as well as the analog world, if you will, of being an active swinging couple within the state of Wisconsin who is interested in meeting single women and couples. We have hosted several parties consisting of hundreds of people, attended many swinger events, and have met and played with many wonderful people at both on site and off sight swinger clubs. We are by no means shy and continue fun lasting relationships will most of the people we’ve met.

However, we have attempted to make the cross over from analog swinging, i.e. meeting people in person, to a more digital environment, i.e. swinging sites, and have been very unsuccessful. We have chatted, added people to networks, given phone numbers, emails addresses, and what not and still have not found successful matchs both sexually or mentally. We have found a host of people wanting pictures, wanting to be added to our network, or people wanting to be added to our messenger list. For what reason, we have still yet to discover, but we still press on to find that small niche of active swinging couples and women looking to actually meet and have fun.

So we pose the question…how many of you couples and/or single women out there find belonging to pay sites and internet swinger’s groups rewarding? Have many of you found the sexual and mental matches you have sought and have enjoyed days and or nights of pleasure and bliss or do many of you believe that the only thing to be found on pay sites and internet groups is a host of unfulfilled fantasies and many debits from your bank account?

Swingers cruise

For quite some time, dh (dear hubby) & I have talked about going on a swingers cruise. Lately I have been having some very hot detailed dreams about it. I thought I would share and see if others have gone and would like to share.

My dream:
We fly to Denver and meet there with 3 other couples we have known and planned this with. We all fly to Florida and have 2 nights in Florida before boarding the ship. The first night we all go out and have great fun. DH gets involved with a gal from the group, and I get involved with a guy. I go with the guy to his hotel room and DH goes with the gal to ours. Hours later, the guy and I walk to my room, and join DH and his GF. The next day, we all meet for breakfast and talk of our wild and fun night. One gal and I hit it off great, and we go shopping. We go into a large store and decide to try on swimsuits. So off to the dressing-room we go, yes together of course. Once in the room, as we're undressing each other, we get carried away. We're on the floor and get distracted by the pounding on the door. Giggling we change and walk out, anxious to return to our hotel room and have more fun. As we walk into my room, DH is there with a gal, so we join them. Dh is delighted at all the female attention. We all take care of each other, and after several hours of very wet fun, we all snuggly in a heap on the bed. Later a hubby knocks at the door, delighted to find his DW and she undresses him, well us 3 gals just can't ignore this, so we help. DH was enjoying the view from the bed, until a gal goes to him for mutual pleasure. After more hours of fun, we decided we should show up for dinner with the other 3. We arrive at the restaurant and wait, finally we order and while enjoying the meal, and each others company, the other 3 arrive, visibly exhausted!! We have a wonderful meal and each couple returns to their hotel room, getting rest for the Cruise.
In the morning, we arrive at the Cruise and all check into our cabins. I am so excited that I can't wait any longer to have DH, so I take him. We finally leave our cabin and find the others for dinner. Chatting with the gals, I find out they also couldn't wait and did the same. My gf from the dressing room, asks me to join her outside. While by the pool, a nice younger man walks up to us and tells us how hot we look, telling us how he and his wife have done this for years and have great fun. As we sit and talk, his hand is slowly walking up my leg. My gf is also getting excited and we decide to take this further. We all start to kiss and slowly he undresses her, while I slip his pants off. Never knowing a lounge chair could be a spot for such desire. GF's DH shows up and helps the younger man, as the couple find extreme heat, the younger man suddenly has me on my back, lowering my dress, the straps fall off my shoulders. As we slowly enjoy each others bodies, he fills me with his juice.As I cum multiple times, squirting more and more, soaking his cock and balls and thighs. He asks me to his room, as we walk towards it, I notice DH is busy with 2 gals. Knowing how satisfied they will be, I smile and continue walking with my new friend. After several hours, his DW shows up in the morning and joins us. 3 days into the cruise and I find my way back to my cabin. No DH, so I shower and organize my clothes. I decide to walk down for lunch and see if I can find DH. He sits in a hot tub with 3 gals around him, and one behind him. I say Hello and blow him a kiss. My dressing room friend finds me and we talk of our fun thus far. She tells me that her DH is anxious to have me with her, and not wanting to keep him waiting, we all go. early the next morning I again make my way back to my cabin. DH is there with 2 gals. I kiss him and help one gf cum, then I slip into the shower. Our last day of the cruise and DH tells me we have reservations for the next one. He says the next one is longer and has 2 days at a private beach!

I luv this dream, and always wake up nice and wet!!!

Dick Discreet Meeting

Come on my dear, we are very horny we need to fuck you good, our big dicks need to enter your shaved tight pussy and your tight asshole. Come to our meeting in the motel room, once the door is closed it will be time for you to take your dick. Do you see my dear our hard big dicks need to fuck your tight holes, we need you very horny to be fucked good. You will be blindfolded and tied up, than we will need to finger you under the skirt and see your beautiful sexy panties so you will be very horny and ready to take our dicks that will be very hard for you. Let yourself be entered very deeply,it is a must to calm down your sexual needs. You will be held spread wide so the big hard dicks could enter you better. Promise to be a good girl and bend over spread and take deep with no complains..

Jealousy on swingers party?

So, you finally talked her in to go to the swingers club. She is fine-looking and with her sexy dress, she is definitely a catch! You realized that immediately, the other guys are checking her out. Looks like she going to have a lot of fun and you do not. So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm around her, and cast steely: Don not you mess with my wife!
You closely watch her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even when she just talks with a guy.
And at the end of the night it happened. Because of her you got together with a couple and ended up in a hotel room. Because of your wife, you finally got screw a good looking woman and her husband screwed your wife. After that both of you banged together both ladies. At this point you realized that, he is not only just younger and better looking than you are but easily outperformed you in sex, plus he is really big down there. He was able to screw both women with his big cock all night long. He gave them multiply orgasms several times.
You did not think about this one. You did not think that a guy will be able to screw both ladies all night long. He was able to does this. Was not he? What was it? Viagra? I do not think so... It is fact, Viagra can make you bang all night long, but Viagra can not give you multiply orgasm and alot of cum and he had both. He filed up more then few condom with sperm. What ever it was, it worked well. He gave both women screaming orgasm several times. She not supposed to have more fun than you have. Do you think is right?

Soft swinging

Couples get together and engage in sexual activity together, but they only have sex with their own partners -- no partner swapping. But a lot of watching does go on -- and possibly some touching -- a touchy matter best negotiated in advance. The hard line for soft swinging is no intercourse between non-mates. A wider definition says that any time a couple brings in a third party, they are swinging (threesomes). But in this case the third party would only watch or be watched.

Last night we had some fun with some friends of ours that we met here (who shall remain unmentioned unless they choose to share ). WOOO HOOOO was it ever a lot of fun. Both females were unfortunately limited by a monthly condition...so everything steered clear of that..Still...there is a lot that can be done Anyway, I was curious about what "Soft Swap" is. If someone gets a bj, is the line crossed? Is it soft swap if all the attention is on the swapped partner, and almost zip on your own until afterwards? Anyway, we had a lot of fun. As always it is fun to get out, but to get out with another great couple you can enjoy...beyond many of the normal social boundaries, what a fantastic time!

Swingers Parties

As we mentioned the other day, our societal calendar is pretty full for the next few weeks. So full, that we had to turn down a couple of invitations to restricted house parties. A black couple from Denver invited us to their party on November 1, but that night-time we are having a birthday celebration for Greg at the Proof Niteclub. A black couple from Longmont sought after to know if we would attend their party on November 8, but we are attending a friend's birthday celebration at the Sugar House that night-time.

The restricted house party is our favorite way to play, so we felt bad having to turn these invitations down, but we feel it's added honorable to make early commitments to others and stick with them. According to many of our colleagues in the swing lifestyle, others like to hold out for i'm sorry?'s called the "bigger, well again deal." Some swingers never fully commit to anything because they think that a added pleasing offer might "cum" along. We don't understand this category of assessment because if you happen to miss one party, there's always a different one to go to later on.

For some indefinite reason, we have recently been getting a lot of attention on Adult FriendFinder. Our profile has received added than 1100 views in the past 30 days, and we have also external 40 flirts and landed on 14 hotlists in that same interval. Those numbers are much superior than regular for us, and we think it might be because we recently updated our profile photos. Unfortunately, much of this attention is imminent from people that we will never meet, either because they settle too far away away or they don't meet our criteria.

One couple from Salt Lake City sent us a rather obscure letter earlier this week. Their message read, "We saw your profile," and nothing else. They gave us no indication if they sought after to meet us, or if they just sought after to compliment us on our profile. We didn't have the patience to dig that information out of them, so we sent them a response that simply read, "Thanks for letting us know our profile is evident." They have not on paper back.